Your wedding day is one of the most significant moments of your life, and choosing the right celebrant to officiate it is just as important as selecting the perfect venue or the dream dress. The celebrant sets the tone of your ceremony, guides proceedings and helps to create a meaningful and memorable experience for you, your partner, and your guests. They also play a huge part in the planning and creation of your ceremony and each is as unique as the couples they marry.
But how do you find the right professional to help you celebrate your love? Here’s a guide to help you choose the celebrant that’s perfect for you and your wedding.
As a first step, have a look at what other couples say about their services. Check out Google Reviews and testimonials on the celebrant's Website/IInstagram/Facebook. You may have been recommended the celebrant by a wedding planner, venue or other supplier - even so, it's still a good idea to take a good look at their reviews before you make contact.
I always suggest that after your initial query as to the celebrant's availability, that you have a no obligation Google Meet/Zoom so you can talk through what you want for your ceremony. This allows you to get a feel for them as a person and to understand how they will communicate and work with you. Ask as many questions as you need to, so you can make the best decision that matches your needs and expectations.
Here's a list of some of the attributes and skills that you may want to look for in a celebrant;
KNOWLEDGE, EXPERIENCE, IDEAS & CREATIVITY in creating a bespoke ceremony that fits you perfectly.
The ability to LISTEN & RESPOND TO YOUR NEEDS & WISHES, so your ceremony is totally unique to you.
WRITING SKILLS, to help you prepare the structure, wording and tone of your ceremony, incorporating lots of different personal elements, stories, anecdotes and poignant moments.
SUPPORT & GUIDANCE, answering any questions you may have in the run up to the ceremony. Organising a destination wedding can be a huge leap of faith and having someone at the end of an email to answer your questions big and small can help so much in your enjoyment of your ceremony planning and the day itself.
CLOSE WORKING WITH ALL SUPPLIERS involved in your ceremony. It takes a big team of people to make a wedding go according to plan and celebrants are very much part of that team. They need to work well alongside wedding planners, photographers, videographers, sound technicians, event staff etc.
PRACTICAL HELP with getting items for your ceremony and bringing them on the day. The more you can delegate, the less you have to think about on the day!
THE ENERGY & STYLE that they will bring - will they fit with the feel that you want for your ceremony?
A CALM, ORGANISED PROFESSIONALÂ who can give you REASSURANCEÂ as well all those involved in the ceremony, answering questions and giving suggestions on the day. Another key skill is the ability to ADAPT WHEN THINGS DON'T GO ACCORDING TO PLAN.
EXPERIENCED PUBLIC SPEAKER - a celebrant should be a strong communicator, able to deliver a ceremony that fits your vision.
DO YOU FEEL A CONNECTION with them? WILL THEY HAVE YOUR BACK? Your celebrant will be a part of one of the most important days in your life and you will be putting a lot of trust in them. Feeling a positive connection and confidence in them will allow you to enjoy the process of creating your ceremony and then you can sit back, relax and enjoy every moment of your special day.
Phew! Lots to think about..... Choosing the right wedding celebrant is a crucial step in creating a wedding ceremony that feels authentic, meaningful, and uniquely yours. Look for someone with the right blend of experience, personality, and professionalism. Take the time to meet with potential celebrants and discuss your vision for the ceremony to ensure they’re the perfect fit for your big day.
By choosing a celebrant who understands and reflects your values and vision, you’ll set the stage for a ceremony that’s as special and unforgettable as your love story.
Think you might want the help of a celebrant for your Wedding Ceremony? Get in touch for a no obligation chat, I'd love to hear from you!
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